In the workplace, the issue of Christmas and Christmas celebrations will inevitably come up. But when asked if I celebrate Christmas (as in do I put up lights/decorate/get a tree), I said no. Then they asked me why not. I said, “I feel Christmas is a corporate/capitalist holiday that has people focusing once a year to be nice and considerate to each other, and people spend money on presents nobody wants, presents that don’t have any thought behind them. (Plus, I’m not religious, so I don’t see a point in celebrating a holiday i have no ties to personally).”
Don’t get me wrong, I like giving presents and I like receiving presents, but I don’t like it when they’re turned into some kitsch, contrived ritual— like Christmas (maybe even birthdays? not sure).
Of course, I’m getting teased, and I don’t mind it now- because I understand it now. At first I was uncomfortable with getting teased for my beliefs, but when I thought about it, I realized…. and I mean this in the most sincere and non-malicious sense possible, but quite honestly, it’s ignorance. I realize most people, however well-intentioned and lighthearted they are, they just don’t really think about the things they do or say. Now that I understand that, I don’t mind the teasing so much -doesn’t mean I think it’s okay.
If I had said I don’t celebrate Christmas because of another religious (conditioned) belief, I wouldn’t be getting teased (because that’s bigotry and a no-no). As if giving a conditioned answer is more valid than one I thought of carefully; As if my not being religious is less valid than being religious.